Let's get straight to the point: being locked up can be very, very sexy. But we're not talking about rope bondage or handcuffs — we're not even talking about collars and leashes. We're talking about cock cages and using them for chastity play and beyond.
What is a Cock Cage?
Cock cages are pretty much exactly what they sound like: a cage for your cock. A good cock cage will fit closely around the shaft and head of your penis, and most are held in place by either a cock ring or a waist harness. They can be made of all sorts of materials, like silicone, metal and plastic. Make sure you choose a penis cage made of body-safe materials like medical-grade steel and polycarbonate — no jellies or TPE which can be toxic or cause allergic reactions.
Once you have your cock cage on, you'll lock it into place, and the Dominant will generally take away the key. The purpose? To make an erection uncomfortable at least and impossible at most. That is, unless your Dom decides to set you free.
What is Chastity Play?
The word "chastity" probably brings to mind connotations of celibacy, or some sort of religious reasoning for not having sex. Chastity play is quite the opposite — it's the denial of sex by one partner to help heighten sexual arousal in the other, usually as part of a Dom/Sub dynamic. Cock cages are ideal for chastity play because they prevent the wearer from achieving an erection and ensure that a sneaky wank can't happen when the Dom isn't watching.
The element of control is a major reason why people find chastity play so enticing. When the wearer is denied intercourse and masturbation, it makes the sexual release of finally taking off the penis cage feel much more intense and satisfying. There are also plenty of opportunities for teasing before the cage is taken off, ranging from sexting to humiliation.
As with all forms of BDSM, and sex in general, it's important that both parties consent to chastity play and all related sexual activities. Check in with each other often, establish a safe word or other boundaries and always remember to play the SSSC way: safe, sane, sober and consensual.
How to Find the Best Cock Cage Size
Once you've decided that chastity play is something you'd like to experiment with, you'll need to find a penis cage. However, unlike other sex toys, cock cages are not a one-size-fits-all situation. It's important to get the right size, otherwise the cage will either fall off or constrict you in a way that could become dangerous. The penis is not somewhere you want to lose circulation. Well, okay, that kind of applies to every body part. But the penis especially.
Step 1: Find the Right Cock Ring Size
The cock ring portion of a penis cage is what holds the device in place, so finding a comfortable and secure fit is essential. The ring should fit around the base of your penis and balls, but not squeeze too hard — you could be wearing the penis cage for several days, so having too tight a fit could be catastrophic.
The first thing you need to do is get a basic idea of your penis and scrotum size. If you have a soft measuring tape handy, wrap it around yourself and use that number to inform the cock ring size range you should aim for. Cock rings are fairly inexpensive, so you can buy a set or two online to test them out and find your perfect fit. If one size is too big or too small, increase or decrease by ¼ inch until you hit the Goldilocks zone.
How do you know when you've struck gold? You should be able to stick your finger between the ring and your penis for a nice, firm fit. If you can't do that, it's too small; if it's too easy to do, it's too big. Once you find your fit, leave it on for awhile to see if it remains comfortable as you go about your day.
Step 2: Finding Penis Length
We know it's hard, but you need to make it not hard for this step. In order to get an accurate length estimate for your penis cage, you have to measure your penis when it's completely flaccid. To do this, rest a ruler gently against the scrotum and record the length to the tip of your penis. You can even take a couple of measurements to find an average in case you were partially hard or...you know...it was cold and you had to retreat for a minute.
Step 3: Finding Penis Girth
While this is the least important measurement to know, it can still be helpful in finding the most comfortable fit for your penis cage. While your penis is flaccid, simply measure the diameter of the shaft. Easy as that!
The Best Cock Cages for Chastity Play & More
Once you've figured out the right penis cage size, you can finally get to the fun part — buying one! Some cock cages are better for beginners than others, and depending on your preferences you might want something light with a bit of give or something hard and weighty. We have plenty of suggestions to help you get started.
Dr Joel All Star Dual Enhancer Ring
New to chastity play or just looking for a softer option? This is the penis cage for you. Made of plushy, body safe SEBS, the Dr Joel All Star Dual Enhancer Ring keeps submissives under control without causing discomfort — the unwanted kind, anyway. It's easy to clean and maintain, both during and after use, so no matter how dirty your games get, this penis cage will be a breeze to prep for next time.
Textured Stimulation Enhancer Penis Sheath
The Textured Stimulation Enhancer Penis Sheath is the darling of the chastity play community, a perfect design for teasing, denial, humiliation and pleasure. This device consists of a cage, four rings, six locking pins and several spacers to help customize the cage for your perfect fit, all made of medical grade polycarbonate. And did we mention the brass padlock and key? If you want your Sub to know who's boss, you need to outfit them with the ManCage Chastity Device.
Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer
Just want the weight of a penis cage without the cage? Try the Zero Tolerance Vibrating Girth Enhancer from Evolved Novelties, an impressive cock ring with weights that tug teasingly at the testicles during sex and foreplay. You can even use it for solo stroking — if your Dom gives the okay, of course. The rugged snaps help tug the scrotum away from the body and can intensify orgasms when the time finally...comes.
Vibrating Cock Cages & Rings
Want a cock ring or cage that's even more enticing? See if our selection of vibrating cock rings tickles your fanny — er, fancy. We carry stretchy vibrating sleeves and firmer plastic cock cages that make sex even more electrifying for wearer and receiver alike. You can also simply choose rings, which pack just as much of a punch in spite of their compact package. Whether you use them for chastity play or other kinky activities, all of our options are sure to get you both off more intensely than ever before.
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