Think about orgasms. They’re good, right? Now, think about what parts of your body need to be stimulated to trigger orgasms . You probably thought about genital stimulation. Sure, the penis, the vagina, the G-spot, the clitoris, and the prostate (if you’re unfamiliar with the orgasmic potential of the P-spot, look into it!) are usually top contenders, but I’m guessing that not a ton of you thought about your nipples.
Truth? The nipples are an often underrated erogenous zone. Folks seem to know that they should stimulate nipples somehow (or at least that they like touching their partner’s nipples), but we tend to treat nipples as a mere stop along the way to orgasm. The big news here is that nipples are a powerful erogenous zone that can lead to sexual arousal and eventually orgasm without stimulating the genitals at all!
Today we’re talking about how nipple stimulation can result in tons of exciting sensations throughout your or your partner’s body and how, with enough nipple stimulation, it’s even possible to achieve orgasm. Read on to learn more about nipples, nipple stimulation, nipple sensitivity, and the orgasmic potential of this sometimes underrated body part.
Can You Get Turned On By Your Nipples?
Absolutely! Why? So many nerve endings! Each nipple has hundreds of nerve endings, making it super-sensitive to temperature or touch. That sensitivity is why nipple stimulation can produce a ton of pleasure.
Here’s a fun fact: a specific area of your brain called the genital sensory cortex responds to sexual stimulation. It’s highly tuned in to genital stimulation, but it also lights up when the nipples are stimulated.
Who Can Have a Nipple Orgasm?
Short answer? Anyone with nipples. Long answer? There are some differences in how nipple stimulation works depending on some physical factors. For instance, folks who have menstrual cycles may notice that nipple orgasms are easier to achieve and/or more intense during menstruation. This is due to hormonal shifts that can increase tenderness and sensitivity and heighten sexual arousal.
How Do You Trigger Your Nipples?
Like any other type of sexual stimulation, nipple play doesn’t have to lead to orgasm (no pressure!) but if you want to have the nipple orgasm experience, be patient! It might involve some experimentation and trial and error as you figure out what works for you. And remember, everyone is different, so, if on your quest for a nipple orgasm you discover you don’t actually enjoy nipple stimulation, that's cool too! Allow yourself to have fun experimenting!
Additionally, there are some things you can do to help make your nipple play enjoyable. Perhaps, unsurprisingly, they are things that help make all sorts of sex play enjoyable!
- Create a relaxing, sexy setting! Stuff like dim lighting, music, and candles can really help set the mood.
- Make sure you are comfortable. Make sure you are situated somewhere where you feel secure and supported. You don’t want to derail your pleasure worrying about getting a stiff neck!
- Get turned on mentally and physically. Whether it’s through fantasy, reading some erotics, watching porn, do whatever works to get you aroused.
- Don’t rush. Take the time to explore different sensations and technique
Experiment with modes of stimulation. So many things can be used to stimulate the nipples. Fingers, mouths, vibrators, clamps, lotions, oils, and more. Check it out:
- Oils and lotions: The simple act of applying oils or lotions and massaging the breast and nipple area can feel amazing, but using a warming product can take that sensation to the next level.
- Ice: Earlier, we mentioned that nipples are sensitive to temperature. This is why incorporating ice can create some powerful sensations.
- Vibrators: Whether you choose one specifically meant for nipples or simply add your regular vibe to your nipple play, vibrators are an awesome way to stimulate the nipples.
- Clamps: Clamps are a super-versatile way to tease the nipples. Many can be worn loosely and then tightened up when you are ready to amp up your arousal.
Share the love… with the rest of your body. Sure, we’re exploring nipple stimulation, but if it sounds good to you, there’s no reason not to stimulate the clitoris, penis, or any other part of you that feels good!
How Can I Stimulate My Nipples Naturally?
Like we discussed above, you can certainly incorporate sex toys such as nipple clamps and vibrators, but you can also go about nipple stimulation au naturel, as it were. Whether playing solo or with a partner, there are plenty of ways to stimulate the nipples with no props at all!
Hands and fingers are terrific for rubbing, massaging, and flicking the nipples. Experiment with what kind of touch you enjoy, and then you will be able to share that information with your partner.
Additionally, when playing with a partner, you get the fun bonus option of stimulation via the mouth. Here are some fun ways mouths can be used to stimulate nipples:
- Breath. This one is subtle and gentle. Breathing hot breath on and around the nipples can feel amazing while also building some of that fun erotic tension.
- Licking. When it comes to stimulating nipples, tongues are versatile. The tip of the tongue can be used to circle the nipple or to make sharp flicking motions. Alternatively, the flat part of the tongue can caress larger areas of the nipple and areola.
- Sucking. One of the easiest ways to create extra blood flow and increase sensitivity is to draw the nipple into the mouth. Check in with your partner to make sure you are providing a level of suction that is comfortable for them.
- Nibbling. If you like the sensation a nipple clamp provides, you will probably enjoy a little nibbling. Again, the nibbler will want to check in to make sure they aren’t going too hard (one person’s “ooh la la!” may be another person’s “ouch!”).
How Do You Squeeze Your Nipples?
There are so many ways to touch, caress, flick and squeeze the nipples, and no one way is “correct.”. This is another one of those times where experimentation is important. Here are just a few suggestions, but remember, it’s all up to you!
- Light touch: rather than going right for the nipples, start off using broad strokes that lightly trace the breast and areola. Maybe segue into some gentle massaging or light squeezing of the breast.
- Teasing: Create some anticipation by breaking up the strokes and squeezes with some circling of the areola with your finger tips. This feeling of almost touching the nipples can help amp up the arousal.
- Direct contact: Once you are feeling turned on and really anticipating the sensation of nipple stimulation, use your fingers to rub the nipples lightly and slowly. Then build up the pressure and speed as you (or your partner) gets more excited.
- Pinching: Create a flood of sensation throughout the body with a pinch of the nipples. The harder you pinch, the more intense the sensation. Play around to find the pressure and intensity that feel right for you or your partner.
- Do the twist: If the pinching feels good, try out a little twisting or gentle pulling.
- Back it up: No need to gallop directly to orgasm if you or your partner (or both!) are enjoying your nipple play session, try pulling back a bit as the sensation builds. Play with getting close to orgasm, backing off a bit, and then repeating the process.
These are just a few of the options you have for stroking and squeezing the breasts and nipples. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different methods! If you are playing with a partner, work together and communicate to make for a truly satisfying collaborative experience.
Nipples are often an underrated source of orgasmic pleasure, but nipple play can 100% bring you or your partner to orgasm, and there are so many ways to make the journey to orgasm pleasurable and the arrival at it explosive. However, you can also stimulate the nipples but stop at the point of orgasm, also known as orgasm denial. This is a classic BDSM move wherein the dom controls when the sub orgasms. Have fun finding what feels good for you!
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