Whether you heard it while indulging in some risque movies or from a friend talking about their weekend hookup, you've most likely heard someone bring up penis size in regard to sex. Let's face it — how a penis looks can be a huge turn-on for some people. Really, it’s no different than our attraction to other private parts. However, does penis size matter when having sex? While some people may argue that a bigger penis means better sex, we at PinkCherry firmly believe that there is no "best penis size" for achieving mind-blowing climaxes. As part of our Myth Busted Series, we'll look further into this myth and share why amazing sex can happen regardless of whether you or your partner is packin'.
The Best Penis Size Is Subjective
We get it — watching professionals in movies may have you second-guessing our stance on this, asking, "No, seriously — does penis size really matter?" Unfortunately, we can't deny that some people will always think that it does. However, there are many other people who simply don't care or would rather have sex with someone rocking a more average or smaller sized tool. In other words, the best penis size for you or your partner may not be the same as what somebody else prefers. And, because size is subjective, bigger does NOT always mean better.
Why Does Penis Size Matter to Some?
As we mentioned before, there are people who have a strong preference for larger penises, and that's perfectly okay! Some people find that more inches increases pleasure. That's why you can find dildos that are as humongous as the King Cock 14" sex toy. Just like everybody has their own unique set of turn-ons, some people are genuinely attracted to men with large penises. This is no different than having a preference for larger breasts or butts, or having more specific fetishes. However, this mentality can be dangerous if somebody truly believes that there is a best penis size for sexual pleasure. This thinking can lead people to turn potential partners away if their penis is too small (or even too large).
Why Penis Size Doesn't Equate to Great Sex
Whether your turn-ons include an enormous penis, or you're concerned about your own stature, you should know that size, ultimately, doesn't matter when it comes to steamy bedroom play. For one, too much length can sometimes cause discomfort or even pain. But the biggest reason why pleasure has nothing to do with size is it really all comes down to the performance itself. Regardless of whether or not someone has a huge package, they may completely lack finesse and skill in the bedroom and leave their partner feeling disappointed at the end of the evening. At the end of the day, what really matters is how one uses what they have and their sexual energy to get their partner off. And, for those who are in a long-term relationship or are married, close intimacy can be the icing on the cake for phenomenal sex. Without these variables, you'll understand why penis size really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of sexual bliss. Plus, there are male enhancement products like a penis extender or pump to quickly add length, thickness, and texture.
Should You Be Concerned With Your Own Penis Size?
If you're reading this and thinking about your physique, it's time to put your worries aside. Does penis size really matter to some people? Yes, but it's not up to you to change their mind, unfortunately. As we previously stated, intimacy and performance are key to having wonderful sex. Unless it's a meaningless one-night stand, your focus should be on tending to your partner's wants and needs. Confidence comes from the heart and knowing oneself, and you should never let your penis size dictate your self-worth. If you have an awesome, loving partner, they won't care about the size of the bulge in your pants. They will only care about making sure that your needs are met, as well. So, if you feel that your penis could be a little bigger or smaller, don't stress — you are perfect just the way you are. As long as you put your burning passion into lovemaking, you can have incredible sex every time.
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