New to the pocket pussy club? We got you covered! Knowing how to use a pocket pussy (otherwise known as a pocket stroker) properly is key to making it feel even more like the real thing. Using this ultra popular type of penis stroker can seem self-explanatory, but it isn’t always. We’re going to let you in on some of our best tips and tricks for getting started with your pocket pleasure pal.
Of course, the basic idea of a pocket pussy is pretty easy: put your penis inside, move the stroker up and down (stroke it!), have an orgasm, clean it up, and store. Sounds simple, right? However, the truth is that there are many ways to use a pocket pussy to get off, have fun, experiment, and even play with a partner.
The following guide will work for just about any type of pocket stroker, whether it’s designed to mimic oral sex, anal sex, vaginal sex, or none of the above. It will also work with a self-contained or cased stroker like a fleshlight. Basically, any type of male masturbator with an inner cavity. On that note, we’d like to mention that although this type of sex toy for people with penises is very often called a ‘pocket pussy’, it does not necessarily/often does not look like a vagina. Hey, not everyone is into vaginas!
We’ll explain how to use your new adult toy for masturbation, and how to get the most out of your sensual experience. So, let’s explore the wonderful world of pocket pussy masturbation fun!
The Best Way to Use A Pocket Pussy
Let us count the ways! The first thing you need to know is that there isn’t just one best way to use a pocket pussy. It will depend on so many different factors, including your body, your preferences, and the pocket pussy itself. So, while these instructions are a great place to start, always stay open-minded and experimental. Remember, the best part about playing by yourself is that you can do whatever feels best!
- Lubricate at least the top half of your penis with your favorite water-based lube. If you like wetter sex , you can use more lube. If you don’t like things too wet, you can use water-based lube with a few extra drops of water.
- Take some lubricant on your finger and put it inside the first few inches of the opening of your pocket pussy. Once again, if you’re a “the wetter, the better” person, you can use more lube.
- Think of using the pocket pussy like you’re actually having sex or getting a blowjob - work your head slowly into the opening of the faux vagina, mouth, butt or otherwise before diving right in.
- Stroke stroking slowly at first to help spread the lubricant throughout your pocket pussy.
- When things feel as slippery as you like, you can start to speed up your strokes if you’re in the mood for a quickie, or keep it slow for more drawn-out enjoyment. Adjust your grip on the outside of the pocket pussy to get a tighter feeling.
- If your pocket pussy or stroker is open-ended, squeeze the back opening when you’re close to ejaculation. This will help keep all that lubricant and semen contained while you enjoy your big finish.
- Catch your breath, then rinse and clean your pleasure pal well, making sure to let it dry before storing it away for next time.
- Store your pocket stroker in a safe space away from lint or dust.
Tips for The Best Pocket Pussy Pleasure
Who doesn’t love a good trip to Pleasureville? If you are looking to have the most erotic experience with your pocket pussy, then we have some tips to make it a fun-filled romp every time you reach for it. Some of our tips may seem amazingly simple, but sometimes, it’s the simplest things that are going to make it worth your time.
Use Lube
Lube for the win! We’re serious. Lube is going to make all the difference here. Think about how a pocket pussy works in relation to vaginal sex. Without any lubrication, there is going to be way too much friction when you thrust into your pocket pussy. More friction can equal less pleasure. Plus, not using enough lube can cause tearing and splits in the pocket pussy, which can lead to bacterial buildup.
So, what kind of lube is best? You always want to use a water-based lubricant with your sex toy, unless it is otherwise stated in the user manual. Feel free to use as much as you’d like, but we always suggest using more rather than less!
Go Slowly
It doesn’t have to be a sprint! Many people feel like they can go as fast as they want when they use a pocket pussy, and eventually, you can. However, you don’t want to go into it going too fast. Your pocket pussy may feel super-snug at first, but it will slowly start to expand to fit you. Don’t force it, or you could hurt yourself or break your playmate.
Try Out Different Actions and Positions
Variety is the spice of life! Once you have eased yourself into it, you may want to start doing some experimentation. Try to go fast and slow to see what works best for you. Try moving your hips in a circle to see if that feels good. Maybe you want to adjust your grip strength on the outside of the pussy. The pleasure possibilities are endless!
You can also try to thrust with your hips or only use your hands. Maybe you want to try it with or without the vibrations on. Maybe you want to add a little more lube (or a warming lube). You can even use it in the shower – because let’s face it, shower sex is hot! Do whatever your mood calls for!
Use It with A Partner
Don’t think that you have to do it alone! Sometimes your partner may like to watch you using your masturbator. You can lay back and close your eyes and have them use it on you. Maybe you want to put on a show for your partner.
If the end is open, maybe your partner wants to help you out with their mouth. There are so many different ways that you can use your pocket pussy and sharing the fun with your partner makes it even better!
Don’t Give Up
You may be excited to use your new male sex toy, but remember to be patient. Just like with other toys, you may have to use it a few times before you really figure out the best way to use it. You will have to play around and experiment. Sometimes, you may like one thing and another time you may like something else which is completely ok!
Of course, you can also use your realistic pocket pussy to build up your endurance, improve your stamina, practice your thrusting technique, and edge yourself. There are limitless ways to improve your experience.
Use A Warmer
Ready to heat things up? To make your pocket pussy experience feel even more realistic and pleasure-filled, you can use a warmer with it. You may also want to warm up your lube, so it feels like a real vagina. If you are interested in temperature play, you may want to stick it into the refrigerator (but not the freezer!).
Go Hands-Free
It’s all in the hips! Another option is to get an attachment that allows you to mount your pocket pussy to the wall, so you can easily thrust without using your hands at all.
What About Strokers?
Never heard of a stroker? That’s ok. You can also invest in an automated unit that will stroke for you. All you need to do is find the settings that you like the most and enjoy the erotic sensations that come your way!
Be Sure to Store It Properly
To get the most enjoyment out of your pocket pussy, you need to keep it in tip-top shape. A little TLC goes a long way! If you want your pocket masturbator to last, then you need to take care of your pleasure pal properly when it comes to cleaning and storing. Not sure how to clean a pocket pussy? Be sure to clean it using soap and water or a dedicated antibacterial sex toy cleaner.
Be sure not to just throw your sex toy in a drawer and call it a day. Many pocket pussies will come with a case, and you should keep it in that case for storage. If it doesn’t, you can buy a box to store it, wrap it in a lint-free towel, or find a bag that won’t leave lint on it.
If you don’t use it often, be sure to inspect it before you use it. Using a pocket pussy with cracks, mold, or too much moisture will not end well for you. So be thorough in your cleanliness. You want the best for your little playmate, so it can continue to help you enjoy every moment when the mood strikes.
Take Your Masturbation to the Next Level
Knowing how to use a pocket pussy in the right way will take your sexual pleasure and masturbation sessions to new heights, whether you are using it alone or with a partner. Choose the right pocket pussy, take proper care of it, and don’t be afraid to experiment for fun. Because in the end, your pocket pussy is there for your ultimate pleasure!
